I thought admitting it would be my final defeat but it turned out to be exactly the opposite.
The moment I admitted I was an addict, I felt a huge sense of relief, as if a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I no longer felt the need to hide or lie, which felt like a gift in itself, because all those lies had made me ill.
During my stay in rehab at Landgoed Kortenbos, I gradually became aware of my behaviour and negative thought patterns. That awareness, together with the support from the Connection SGGZ team, helped me to slowly start living again, one step at a time.
Taking responsibility, reconnecting with myself and others, being honest, not judging others but instead looking at myself.
The Connection SGGZ programme was intensive but also incredibly comprehensive. In the sessions with psychologists and recovery mentors, I felt truly heard and understood – maybe for the first time in my life. The recognition I found in the stories of my fellow-clients helped me stop feeling so “weird”.
After my stay at Landgoed Kortenbos, I received ten weeks of aftercare from CACN. Together, we continued to work on my recovery, building on from the foundation laid for it at Kortenbos. I kept reflecting on the moment when I became aware of my behaviour and thoughts so I would learn to make different, more sensible choices.
I’m so grateful towards the teams at Connection SGGZ and CACN for their patience and professional approach. I’ve got my life back and it’s so much nicer and more fun than it ever was.
That does not mean I no longer have bad days but I no longer need drugs to pull me through.
I’ve been clean now for 900 days, which truly feels like a miracle, considering that I couldn’t even stay off drugs for 900 seconds in the months before I was admitted.
After my treatments at Connection SGGZ and CACN, I continued to work on myself for another six months. With the help of schema therapy, I managed to break through thinking patterns in which I constantly “punished” myself. I still attend self-help groups (such as CA) which are held daily all over the country.
There is a solution, so please give yourself a chance!
This recovery story was written on 5 July 2023.